From SpongeBob to Bosch

A new article by Angeline Lillard and Jennifer Peterson in Pediatrics indicates that four year-olds have a difficult time focusing immediately after watching nine minutes of a fast-paced cartoon (i.e., SpongeBob SquarePants). You can read it here.

A recent article by Costas Karageorghis and David-Lee Pries in the Sport Journal describes ten years of research indicating that fast-paced music helps individuals increase the intensity and duration of physical activity.  You can read it here.

An unpublished account of my own wife’s behavior indicates that she cannot fall asleep to True Blood on HBO.

I mention these three separate observations to make this point:  the best paintings, sculptures, television programs, music, movies and other forms of mediated reality change the observer.  They motivate us to laugh, cry, reflect, or move.

Expecting that a good, fast-paced cartoon would doing anything but motivate kids to jump around is as absurd as expecting that an exhibit of the collected works of Hieronymus Bosch would motivate patrons to bake cupcakes.

We all want our children to focus, to concentrate, to be healthy and to use their abilities to the fullest.  Conflicting reports and “magic bullet” solutions only make this harder.  It is why I object to the tone of Lillard and Peterson’s article.  Banning fast-paced cartoons is not a panacea.  It will not guarantee improved academic performance, but being a parent might.

Kids need parents.   They need parents to create environments where success can happen.  According to Lillard and Peterson’s data (which I believe), this might mean not allowing our kids to watch fast-paced cartoons (or play high-energy videogames, or listen to fast-tempo music) before or during studies.  It might mean setting an appropriate environment, with the right lighting and sound, for sleep.  It also might mean using Tom and Jerry to motivate kids to move around and get that much-needed physical exercise.

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Ask Santa

I recently interviewed two groups of mothers about a variety of issues facing their children, and I was surprised by the fear and mistrust that permeated their responses.  I guess I shouldn’t have been.  I have written extensively about the disconnect between who kids actually are and how they are portrayed in the media.  I cannot help but think that it is this popular media image of our kids and their worlds that has these mothers so afraid that exposure to the wrong word or image will send their children tripping down a path of self-destruction.

As my holiday gift to those mothers and to all parents, let me say this:  your kids are good.  They generally make good decisions, and they generally know right from wrong.

This is quantifiably true.

This current generation of kids is less harmful to itself and others, more civic minded and even more academic than the previous two.

Don’t believe me?  Look it up.

It also is anecdotally true.

Every week I meet kids that are doing amazing things like founding charities, making discoveries, and looking out for their fellow humans.

Don’t believe me?  Ask Santa.

Carl Anderson has played Santa Claus for 28 years.  In that capacity he has listened to the wishes of and read letters from thousands of kids.  During that time he kept a journal that he recently started putting online.  It is a beautiful record of the generosity and overall goodness of our kids.

Enjoy it here.  Happy Holidays.

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Bullying Our Kids

Bullying is a real problem.  The best research indicates that about 13% of tweens and young adolescents are involved in moderate or frequent bullying, an additional 11% are bullied, and a troubling 6% both bully and are bullied.  Moreover, the consequences of bullying for both the bullied and the bullies can be dire.

It is not unique to the United States. A World Health Organization study ranks the United Stated in the middle of surveyed countries in terms of bullying prevalence among tweens and adolescents.  Which countries are the worst?  Well, it turns out that Cole Porter was right:  Lithuanians and Letts do it.

It certainly is not new.  The Western canon is ripe with fictional depictions of bullying that date back centuries.  You may recall that Oliver Twist delivered his famous line, “Please, sir, I want some more,” after he and his companions were threatened by another boy who was, “tall for his age.” Remember Piggy from Lord of the Flies?  Well, the fact that he was called, “Piggy,” was an act of bullying.

It exists in other species.  For example, in large packs one wolf always assumes the role of the “omega” and is subject to the greatest amount of aggression from the other wolves.

Bullying is a real problem, but it is not getting worse.  While some evidence suggests that bullying in schools is increasing slightly, this data seems influenced by testing bias (i.e., there seems to be more because we are more aware of bullying and are looking for it).  Moreover, robust data on overall school safety indicates that school violence is decreasing.

I mention these latter points to caution against the tendency of our society to define our kids by the most recent crisis reported in popular media.   The tragic suicide of 15 year-old Phoebe Prince in Massachusetts has been linked to bullying, and, since the media started reporting the details of this case a few weeks ago, new legislation has been proposed, bullying has been labeled an “epidemic,” and we have divided all kids into bullies and the bullied.

I repeat, bullying is a problem that needs to be addressed.  However, bullying does not define our kids, just as cyberstalking did not define our kids last month, or obesity several months before.  Our kids are much more than the latest crisis.  They are students, athletes, activists, consumers, videogame players, television watchers, sons, daughters and friends.

If you suspect that your child is a bully or is being bullied, you probably are right.  Contact your child’s school and a licensed physician immediately.  Fortunately, the dynamics of bullying are well understood, and there are some excellent resources to help schools, communities and families combat it (see Links).

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